Writing from the nervous system outward.

A memoir about trauma, embodiment, and the slow work of coming back into the body.

Book cover: The Straight Man Who Thought He Was Gay

About the book

The body remembers what the mind tries to forget. This memoir begins in Lahore’s diesel air, where a boy learns the intelligence of leaving his body. It carries him across oceans to the United States, where steady, unimaginable love makes healing possible.

With an engineer’s precision and a poet’s pen, the narrative moves through classrooms and dance floors, offices and trails. What once froze begins to thaw. What scattered gathers. From the frightened stillness of a child to the grounded power of a man, he inhabits his body again, breath by breath, nerve by nerve.

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